Make Her Jealous

Another Commandment of Poon

II.  Make her Jealous

Flirt with other women in front of her.  Do not dissuade other women from flirting with you.  Women will never admit this, but jealousy excites them.   No woman wants a man that other women don't want.


Now at first, this may seem like a douche bag rule.   As a matter of fact, most guys are shaking their head as they read it, thinking that only an asshole would follow this rule.  Well, we're not like most guys are we?  We are the recovering Nice Guys who have been put through the ringer, so we know that following conventional rules will get you nowhere.  You know all too well that being nice and gentlemanly all the time doesn't yield much in the way of results.

The very thought of flirting with another woman in front of your wife or girlfriend is enough to make some of you piss in your pants.   Now to clarify, this doesn't mean you should be walking around smacking other women on the ass, or doing the "wink and gun" every time a woman crosses your path.   There's nothing wrong with being at a gathering and smiling at someone, or saying something witty.   If you're a Nice Guy, you've been so conditioned to being "nice" that you don't even want to appear that you are attracted to other women in front of your partner.  You walk around all slouched over looking at the ground, and if you're girlfriend or wife runs into people she knows, you often just stand there silently and wait to be introduced.

I have caught myself not making eye contact with attractive women even if I was by myself!   Next time you're out walking around, try smiling and making eye contact with women, even if they're not all that attractive.   You will learn an invaluable lesson by doing this.    You will discover that (gasp) some women are actually attracted to you and will make eye contact back, and may even smile.   Yes that's right Mr Nice Guy...there are other women out there who are attracted to you.

Here's something I've learned over the years, but it doesn't sound politically correct to say.  Women will only act right if they know you've got other options, which is why flirting comes in handy.  If the woman you're with or trying to date thinks you don't have any other people to date, you'll pretty much be an afterthought to her and she will not value you.   It's like being in high school and asking a girl to dance.  If that girl turns you down, don't even think about asking any of the other girls who just saw you get shot down to dance either.   The girl is sub-consciously thinking to herself "If that other girl doesn't want to dance with him, then why should I?"

Also the more you flirt, the more your self-confidence will start to grow as you realize that other women are interested in you.  Do you really wanna get your woman's juices flowing?  Start charming her female co-workers.   Notice I didn't say FUCK her co-workers, just be charming when they are around.   Her female co-workers will start telling her how "lucky" she is to have a man like you, and that instantly raises your stock in your woman's eyes.   Like the commandment says, no woman wants a guy that other women don't want.