People thought we were crazy when we said we were getting married at a clothing-optional resort. This would be our first time visiting one, and we were both nervous and excited. My wife just thought there would be all kinds of naked people trying to have sex with, so she almost backed out a few times until I convinced her that we wouldn't be doing anything with other people. It was always a fantasy of mine to visit this kind of resort, and I'm glad my wife obliged. I chose Desire Resorts in Mexico since it was a couples only resort.
When we got there, we were greeted with 2 glasses of champagne which was a nice touch. We were shown to our room, which was kinda small but well maintained. Because we were having our ceremony there, they assigned us a personal servant during our stay. One of the things I love about the resort is room service pretty much all day and night. This was also our first time at an all-inclusive resort. There's nothing like waking up with a mimosa, then floating around the pool drinking alcohol.
We went down by the pool, and for the first two days I kept my trunks on, and my wife kept her bikini top and bottom on. By day three I was naked, and my wife was topless. By day 5 we were both walking around naked. One of the things I feared visiting a clothing-optional resort was that I would get an erection staring at some chick, but that never happened. Then of course you think everyone is going to be looking at you, and you'll feel out of place. On the contrary, we actually felt more self-conscious with our clothes on than without. One thing I did notice though is at this resort pretty much everyone was in shape for some reason.
My wife's fears were never realized, as no one tried to fuck us lol. Although I did make a comment about this Asian woman having a nice big ass, which landed me in the doghouse for a few hours. Everyone was so nice and friendly towards us though, and did shots with us when we told them we were getting married on the beach. I think one of the reasons no one was overly aggressive is because Desire Resorts is couples only. I think its more of a place for romance in comparison to Hedonism II. Also Desire Resorts discourages sexual acts in public by the main pool, so that's another reason people are so laid back. This guy was going down on his wife by the pool and one of the hotel staff walked over and warned them. We did have one aggressive incident though. I left my wife alone so I could get drinks, and this couple had her cornered in the pool for a few minutes, trying to get her back to their room.
At night time most people headed up to the Rooftop Jacuzzi. Think about the size of a pool in a big apartment complex, and that's the size of the jacuzzi. There's also a bar in the middle of the jacuzzi to keep the alcohol flowing. There are beds all around the jacuzzi along with fire pits. It's very romantic and erotic being up there, watching the couples have sex in the beds. My wife and I both said we would love to go back, and it completely wiped away all of her misconceptions about clothing-optional places. It also changed our perception about couples who swing. Also at night they have a disco, and in the back of the disco there is a play area. I wanted to have sex with my wife in there, but she wasn't comfortable with the idea of having sex with people so close to you. This was back in 2007, and we had notion of being in the lifestyle back then.
In my opinion, Desire Resorts is the perfect place to go if you are curious about taking your spouse/partner to a clothing-optional place. There is no pressure to be nude, plus with it being couples-only you won't have to worry about any overly aggressive people. It's an awesome place to have a wedding or renew your vows! People who look at our wedding pictures have NO idea we got married at clothing optional resort. We've heard from other people too that all the Desire Resorts are pretty much the same, so you can't go wrong with either one you pick.
