Friday, September 12, 2014

Back on the Swingset

So the wife and I created our AFF (adultfriendfinder) profile this week.   Surprisingly (well, not really) the majority of the people on there are the same people who were on there two years ago.

Obviously, the single guys are still dumb and illiterate.  Even though it clearly states "No Single Guys" on our profile, the majority of the flirts and messages we get are from guys.  It's no wonder single guys get such a bad rep on swinger sites.    We've also recently discussed wanting to meet more couples, and we're open to the idea of doing a soft swap with the right couple.    Most of the single females I see on there are the same flakes from before.    I don't really think we'll end up meeting a female on the website, but I guess it's worth a shot.

I'm thinking we'll probably end up going to the swinger clubs again to find a female, but hopefully we can meet some cool couples as well.   We just have to be very careful this time to not let it mess up our marriage.
  

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Unicorn Strategy: The Hunt For Pink



My wife and I went for a walk yesterday.    She surprised and said she'd been thinking about how we're going to find our single female.    She said she was thinking we should create another profile on adultfriendfinder to find someone.   Create the profile just long enough for us to find someone, have the threesome, then delete the profile.   She also said we can start going to some meet and greets, and she's also open to the idea of it being someone we already know, and she specifically mentioned the female that contacted me last week.

I'm open for all of that, but if it's a female that we already know it needs to be someone we both really like.   I did give my wife's phone number to the female that contacted me and my wife offered to meet her for drinks, so maybe they'll get along well enough to broach the subject.   As far as adultfriendfinder goes, I just hope we don't run across a bunch of flaky females like we did the last time.   I also hope some of the couples we used to play with that wrote us off don't try to contact us either.   Don't know if we'll have too much luck at the meet and greets, as most of the women we run into aren't our type.   Perhaps we'll go buy another membership at the swingers club and start visiting more often.  At this point, it's exciting to see that she's willing to do whatever it takes to find our unicorn.

Ahhhh, the thrill of the hunt.