Trying to find a single female in the swinging world is really a lot like finding a female in the regular world. It's a difficult task at best, and there are lots of women out there who quite frankly, are just a waste of your time.
If there's one thing you should get pissed about, it's people who waste your time. This applies to women who say they want to meet but always have a convenient excuse, and also women who are always late. You know what I'm talking about. You know there are those women you've been communicating with for months online but can't ever seem to nail them down for a time to meet. It's that woman you finally schedule a date with, only to have her come up with up some lame excuse for why she can't meet. Worse yet, it's that woman that stands you up and leaves you sitting at a restaurant or bar like a loser.
People like this are people who don't value or respect your time. When we were looking for single females online, there would always be hordes of women who would send endless emails back and forth, but would never give us their phone number. The best thing to do with women like this is to just move on. I remember one woman in my single days in particular who used to waste my time like this. Instead of accepting it like I normally would do, I decided to do something different. I put her ass in the "friend zone". That's right, I told her that we'd probably be better off as friends instead of trying to date. See women aren't used to a guy doing this to them so it freaks them out. "Oh no, this guy isn't going to give me attention anymore!" Incredibly, just two days later she asked ME out on a date. Try this tactic the next time a woman flakes on you.
Your time is valuable. You can afford to lose money because it can be gained back. You can lose your girlfriend or wife, but you can get another one. There are lots of things in life you can afford to lose but your time is not one of them. If you lose even 10 minutes of time, you will NEVER get it back. EVER.
We have a female friend of ours who keeps saying she wants a threesome with us. The opportunity has presented itself lots of times, but she never does it...or some excuse comes up. Because she is our friend we keep giving her the benefit of the doubt, and over a year later there still hasn't been a threesome. I saw this happening well before my wife began to see it, because Nice Guys have an inner sense about these things. We know when somebody is jerking our chain and just playing games. Since then we've become very good friends with this person, but we are no longer giving her the benefit of the doubt. Great friend though, and that's where she shall remain......the Friend Zone. Because people who really want to do something don't keep making excuses for why it can't happen. By the way, this same friend also has a habit of showing up late whenever we have a get-together or something planned. Coincidence?
Car salesmen will tell you that the people who are serious about buying a car will show up to the lot, test drive, and buy that same day. Some may come back a few days or a week later, but they don't let too much time go by without closing the deal. When we finally found a female for our threesome, we gave her a date that worked for everybody, she showed up that night (ON TIME), and we had sex. It really was that simple. See, people who are serious about doing stuff don't waste your time with excuses.
Guys, it's time to start realizing that your time is VALUABLE. People who truly respect your time don't do things like habitually show up late or stand you up. Stop letting these attention whores take the one thing you can't afford to lose....your time.
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