So a longtime female friend of mine was telling me about this extremely good-looking guy in one of her classes, and how she gets super nervous around him. Now my friend happens to be an attractive woman who gets lots of attention from guys, so its kind of ironic that she would get so nervous being around someone.
So many guys out there (and some women) put the person they are interested on a pedestal, and that's one of the biggest mistakes anyone can make. Always remember the popular phrase of no matter how good-looking she is, there's a guy out there who is tired of putting up with her shit. Guys out there get so caught up in how a woman looks that they don't realize she's a regular human being just like you are.
This same woman who you puts you in a mesmerizing trance every time you see her has just as many faults as you do, if not more. That same woman farts just the way you do. That same woman might get insanely drunk every weekend and puke on herself. She could have piss poor credit, or be a deadbeat mom. That same woman digs in her nose while she's driving her car. That same woman can take a dump in the bathroom so foul-smelling it will make your eyes water. Never put women an unapproachable pedestal, because at the end of the day she's really no different than the other women out there. This circles back to Rule 10 of the Poon Commandments: Ignore Her Beauty.
I gave my friend this exact same speech concerning her good-looking classmate, and the next day she sent me a text saying she actually had her first conversation with the guy. Kudos to her for taking him off the pedestal she put him on. Stop thinking that you aren't worthy of approaching someone just because they look a certain way. What you're really doing when you put someone on a pedestal is you're telling yourself that you aren't good enough for them.
You're better than that. If you don't value and love yourself as a person, don't expect anyone else to.
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