Paying for Affection (also known as Dating)

It pains me to see guys bending over backwards trying to please women that have no interest in them whatsoever.   I've witnessed it firsthand and have been guilty of it myself in the past.   I've seen guys spend hundreds, and even thousands of dollars over the course of a few months for women and still not get laid.  I've also seen women use the fact that a guy likes them to get a Coach purse, a free trip somewhere, even a down payment for a car.    What's even funnier is the guys who these women ARE having sex with aren't even putting forth much of an effort.   The guys they're sleeping with don't even have to buy a Happy Meal, much less take them to a nice restaurant.  Furthermore, most women who are worth a damn wouldn't ever allow a guy to do all of those things for her in the first place, so that should be your first clue that you are being taken advantage of.      

Guys, think about the last woman you had sex with.   I mean really think about it.   Did you have to take her on an endless amount of dates to get laid?   Did you have to spend months getting to know her?   Chances are you didn't have to do any of these things.   The woman liked you and wanted to have sex with you, and it didn't take a lot of effort on your part either.   The problem most guys have is they waste countless weeks and months pursuing women who have no interest in them whatsover.  Think about it.   If a woman actually LIKES you, why would she not want to have sex with you?

There are those rare occurrences when you run across a woman who says she wants to be celibate.   The trick here is to figure out if she's really wanting to abstain from sex altogether, or if she just wants to abstain from having sex with YOU.  The key is to look at what she DOES, not what she says.       If you find that it's difficult to arrange dates with this woman or find that you're always calling her and she doesn't initiate many phone calls, then you're probably being played.  If you're having to beg, borrow, and steal for the tiniest bit of affection from her then you need to look elsewhere.   Even if a woman really is wanting to be celibate, she will still let you know that she really likes you in other ways.    She'll still want to spend time with you, hold your hand, will invite you over for dinner, etc.        

Don't be a fool and waste your time and money on women who have no interest in you.  Like I always say if you really want to waste your money, got to the nearest strip club.  At least you'll get to see naked women in exchange for your hard earned dollars.